How to properly scold a child?
Unfortunately, the actions of children often upset us. Sometimes they'll do things that make it hard not to scream. How to scold so that the remarks do not harm the child?
You can not scold a child based on his appearance or character traits.
It is necessary to focus on actions. But if the child does not understand, why not do this. Then you need to tell him whether it's good or bad. He'll figure it out over time.
It is necessary to understand the child's desires
It will be difficult for him not to take a toy that he likes. But since he still doesn't understand that you can't take someone else's, you need to explain it to him. And if he asks you to buy an expensive toy, you will have to agree on what you will buy later, even if you are not going to. The child will forget anyway.
If the child realizes that he did the wrong thing, then you should not continue to scold him.
He's already figured it out, and scolding him will only make it worse.
You shouldn't tell your child that you can't argue with your elders.
An argument educates a person. It is better to prove to the child why he is wrong and listen to his opinion.
You can't be rude to a child
Just ask him to be quiet and explain why.
If the child pisses the parents off, then you don't have to put up with it.
But anger must also be shown in a restrained form. It is necessary to explain to the child why his actions caused anger. Most often, children listen to their parents' warnings.
If a child does not pay attention to the warnings of his parents, this may occur for two reasons.
1. He is often scolded. React to situations with more restraint.
2. The child does not have enough attention. We need to spend more time with him and give him love.
In any situation, a child needs to know that his parents love him, even if he is wrong. For example, if he wants to take someone else's toy.
The child believes his parents, so he accepts any insults as the truth.
If you call him names, then most likely he will become like that.
There is no need to blame a child for something he is not involved in.
Children are very sensitive and emotional. It may be a joke to you, but it may be a tragedy to him.
There is no need to set other children as an example
You should not scold a child for failures, because of this he will develop low self-esteem and he will become an insecure person. Or he will develop a feeling of envy for other successful people, perhaps even for those who were held up as an example.
The main thing is to love your children and devote more time. A person of any age is a human being. He has his own personality traits, interests, and worldviews. Good relationships with children last a lifetime, and problems and failures last for a while. Sign up now 1xbet and enjoy exclusive offers on sports betting and casino games. Use the
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